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Red flags
In relationships, we often focus on red flags, but everyone, including ourselves, has imperfections. Neuroscience emphasizes looking for regulated capacity, not perfection. We all have shadows and defense mechanisms. Seeking a flawless partner means seeking a statue, not a human. The issue lies in transparency, not the red flags themselves. Instead of searching for flawlessness, seek accountability. Real intimacy involves finding someone who acknowledges their imperfections and works on them. It's about taking control of one's own biological responses. Shift from avoiding struggles to embracing accountability for true connection.