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Losing your cool
In the video, the speaker explains that despite studying attachment theory, managing conflict can still be challenging due to biological responses. The key to growth isn't just understanding trauma but also handling moments when your nervous system perceives a loved one as a threat. During such times, the prefrontal cortex, responsible for communication, shuts down. To break this cycle, a sensory audit technique is suggested to re-engage the cortex and shift focus away from conflict. The ultimate skill is stepping out of your own narrative to prioritize connection over winning. Building the biological capacity to remain present is crucial for healthy relationships.